Are birthdays always Happy?

Turning a corner in my life

Ok I just turned 45! Sharing my age is now a feather in my cap! Now I can safely say I am experienced in most instances. Yes! over 2 decades …can close my eyes and show you how its done! Your gut feeling is mostly correct, your estimation skills are to the last drop, you […]

Are we spoiling our kids?

Delayed gratification ..remember that

A friend recently shared an article titled “Are we getting the raw deal on parenting?” Essentially she was worried if we were actually spoiling our kids and hurting them. Of course this thought has crossed my mind more than once. Are we being  over-protective, too lenient with spending on material things for them, not giving […]

Everything going wrong! Bad luck or what?

A mental Pivot is all it takes...a total of half a second!

Have you noticed 1st hand how a change in our own thinking can take us from being angry or frustrated to suddenly being fine? Happens to me a lot! Which is good. Because there is no such thing as “bad luck”. And I often wonder how easy that was with just a shift in the […]

Finally found my Niche

Ask your kids and see for yourself

Am republishing this post. It was the 1 st post on I believe most may not have read it. Having spent a whole day introspecting and brainstorming what my niche is, I picked up my 7 year old Anya and immediately spilled out my discovery of my Niche. I went on to describe how […]